WAITING FOR ACCEPTANCE
There are many people in life who always in waiting mode to be accepted and need validation from others, this mentality is considered a "Chronic Disease". You see, every problem in life has a source and the source of this disease is that you do not really appreciate your feelings toward your well-being.
Most definitely we should always pursue higher levels of intellectual capabilities, more of quality knowledge and most importantly understand who we are as individuals and what we want in this life. However, that is not enough because you need the most critical skill to make all this works for you which is:
SELF CONFIDENCE
To acquire this skill you need the most pivotal prerequisite which is "self acceptance". You have to ACCEPT yourself, accept your mind and your body. You do not look-down onto yourself or always demoralize your self-esteem because the biggest enemy that you would encounter in your life is YOURSELF. That is a fact of life, when you keep telling yourself that you are "worthless" or you cannot reach places that others did, then this "self barrier" will be always their to make you fail on each attempt you make. Amazingly, there are people in life that has NOTHING and they act, walk, and talk like they have everything they need and more. On the other hand, there are people either has everything or the tools and means to accomplish so many amazing things in life, and they shoot-down their own goals in life and sometimes even before they start their mission.
You do not wait for all of the right tools and circumstances to be available at your disposal so you can accomplish your objectives, but you start with what you have and exert the efforts to reach to your goals in life. You will be astonished on your accomplishments even with mediocre dexterities. Once you reach that stage, you will not wait for any validation or acceptance from others because you have the "self confidence" and the "self-esteem" toward your feelings of well-being. Many people do not understand that the only difference between successful people and the rest of the pack is "self confidence". They are human-being like everybody but they have the tenacity to keep going against all odds because they have the confidence that they can get the job done. The beautiful thing about this skill is that you can learn it and practice it in no time; however, you need the determination to keep going in-spite of all setbacks.
Just remember one thing, your body WILL NOT STOP until YOUR brain TELLS it to stop. One more thing to remember, you will always have friends and foes no matter what you do, just give them your back and do not let anyone ruin your day.
Omar
Dhahran - Saudi Arabia
Omar.ghamdi@gmail.com
Most definitely we should always pursue higher levels of intellectual capabilities, more of quality knowledge and most importantly understand who we are as individuals and what we want in this life. However, that is not enough because you need the most critical skill to make all this works for you which is:
SELF CONFIDENCE
To acquire this skill you need the most pivotal prerequisite which is "self acceptance". You have to ACCEPT yourself, accept your mind and your body. You do not look-down onto yourself or always demoralize your self-esteem because the biggest enemy that you would encounter in your life is YOURSELF. That is a fact of life, when you keep telling yourself that you are "worthless" or you cannot reach places that others did, then this "self barrier" will be always their to make you fail on each attempt you make. Amazingly, there are people in life that has NOTHING and they act, walk, and talk like they have everything they need and more. On the other hand, there are people either has everything or the tools and means to accomplish so many amazing things in life, and they shoot-down their own goals in life and sometimes even before they start their mission.
You do not wait for all of the right tools and circumstances to be available at your disposal so you can accomplish your objectives, but you start with what you have and exert the efforts to reach to your goals in life. You will be astonished on your accomplishments even with mediocre dexterities. Once you reach that stage, you will not wait for any validation or acceptance from others because you have the "self confidence" and the "self-esteem" toward your feelings of well-being. Many people do not understand that the only difference between successful people and the rest of the pack is "self confidence". They are human-being like everybody but they have the tenacity to keep going against all odds because they have the confidence that they can get the job done. The beautiful thing about this skill is that you can learn it and practice it in no time; however, you need the determination to keep going in-spite of all setbacks.
Just remember one thing, your body WILL NOT STOP until YOUR brain TELLS it to stop. One more thing to remember, you will always have friends and foes no matter what you do, just give them your back and do not let anyone ruin your day.
Omar
Dhahran - Saudi Arabia
Omar.ghamdi@gmail.com
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